Wednesday, July 20th, 2011 | Author: admin

Sports require techniques that can help athletes stay cool under pressure. In golf for instance, it is important to practice mental conditioning as much as practicing hitting chip shots. Athletes often work with sports psychologists to help ease their nerves at bay and focus their minds.
While I may not be running marathon under three hours, score goals in soccer, or attempt to master the correct swing plane in golf, I find the simple strategies employed by most athletes beneficial in my game of life.

The Mental Dress Rehearsal
Psychologists say that visualizing a good performance boosts the same confidence that comes from having performed well in the past. Top athletes never seem to be overwhelmed by the big moment usually because they have been there before, either in real life or in their mind.

In giving a report to my graduate studies classes, I get to use this mental exercise where I close my eyes and imagine hitting all my talking points with sense of humor and my audience rewarding me with nods of approval and a round of applause in the end. This makes me relax when the real deal comes. It is as if I have done it before, and to some extent, I had.

Letting Go When It’s Needed

Athletes may be performing well during thier training sessions, being aware of every move they make.  However, under the pressure of competition, over-analyzing their moves may lead to indecision and tightening up.  The result becomes costly. Diversionary tactics can calm an overactive mind.

In basketball for instance, a player making a free throw will distract himself by concentrating on the logo written on the ball.  This technique I find useful when I am swallowed by a wave of performance anxiety.

Friday, July 01st, 2011 | Author: admin

Hi there.
Glad my site has been fixed. Thanks, Wyn.

Wednesday, January 05th, 2011 | Author: admin
* I have been sheltered from the harshness of the world, I have been taught basic doctrines from the Bible.   I have been raised in the church where teachings about the graciousness of God abounds.   I was not born on easy street  and that led me to thinking that money is not tantamount to happiness – family time and love equates happiness.

* I went from being a simple girl, vocal and assertive dreaming dreams and saying the most intimate prayers to my God, to being a woman of conviction trying hard to become the woman that my God wants me to be. Unscathed from perilous hands and hearts, I entered marriage with my supposed ” God’s gift”.  I knew life would not be all happily ever after as there are too many thorns along the way. I stumbled and fall, I tried to bargain with God, I stood up, and tried to believe in “happily ever after again”.

* I devoted my time to prayers, to family life, limited my social events to quite a number of good people..I tried to stay happy  despite of.. God has been so good, He did not give me trials too much for me to bear. He has been faithful.

* I had my share of errors human as I am. I cried a bucket, I dried my tears. I thought life was simple. I thought I would be happy as long as I married a God-fearing person.  For a time  I believe in happily ever after.

* I am exhausted. My well of passion has dried up. I have invested too much, now I am bankrupt.  I cried but the tears that fell on my cheeks were not enough to fill even a glass full. I can’t go on living on a misery.

*They say one ought not to base one’s happiness to one man. People fail but the Lord doesn’t. I’d like to believe in that. But right now let me mourn. I have never mourned for a passing so painful as this. I am mourning for my loss..of trust, of my dreams of a happily ever after, of the first and only man of life, of my marriage. I mourn for the old me.




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Wednesday, December 15th, 2010 | Author: admin

It’s past twelve midnight, I was jolted off from slumber by a strange sound that the room’s air condition made. There is no way I could go back to sleep. so I lay awake thinking about lots of things..
I miss my husband. I know I should be happy that he is finally coming home in one week’s time but what I am feeling is sadness. For his visit is going to be shorter than the holidays.
I hope there is a way I can beg him to stay longer and even not to go back to his workplace.
I think about how I’m going to spend another year without him. I think about my growing kids, how they will get used to the idea of seeing their father over yahoo and skype.
Shaking those thoughts ..sesshhh..
Now back to the noisy aircon, it must be in a sorry state  as it has completely stopped giving cool air. Good thing there is the fan I can use..now back to sleep…

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Friday, December 03rd, 2010 | Author: admin

In the vast expanse of a timeless place,
Where silence ruled the outer space,
Ominously, towering it stood, The symbol of a spirit war
Between the one name Lucifer,
And the Morning Star, The ultimate of good.
Who will decide who forever will be the Champion?
The audience for the ‘Fight of the Ages’ was
assembled. The angels came in splendor from a star.

The demons arrived, offensive and vile,
cursing and blaspheming God.
Then Arrogantly prancing, hands held high, Trolled by demons, Satan ascended from Hell.
Then Satan cringed, the sinners groaned!
The demons reeled in pain as a swell of power
like silent thunder rolled With a surge of light beyond intense,
In resplendent glory appeared the Son of God.
Opening the Book of Life, each grandstand hushed in awe as
majestically He said,
“Now here’s the rules. He’ll be wounded for their transgressions,
bruised for iniquities” When He said, “By His stripes they’re
healed,” the devil shook!
He screamed, “Sickness is my specialty. I hate that healing junk!”
God said, “You shut your face, I wrote the book!”
Then the Father looked at His only Son and said,
“You know the rules. Your blood will cleanse their sins and calm their fears.”
Then He pointed His finger at Satan and said,
“And I know you know the rules.
You’ve been twisting them to deceive My people for years.”
Satan screamed, “I’ll kill you Christ! You’ll never win this fight!”
The demons wheezed, “That’s right, there ain’t no way.”
Satan jeered, “You’re dead meat, Jesus, I’m gonna bust you UP tonight!”
Jesus said, “Go ahead, make my day!”

The bell rang, the crowd cheered, the fight was on, And the devil leaped in fury.
He threw his jabs of hate and lust. A stab of pride and envy but the hand that
knew no sin blocked every one.

Now the final blow saved for the final round.
Prophetically Christ’s hands came down
And Satan struck in vengeance!
The blow of death felled Jesus to the ground.
The devils roared in victory!
The saints shocked and perplexed as wounds
appeared upon His hands and feet.
Then Satan kicked Him in His side, and blood and water flowed.
And they waited for the 10 count of defeat.
God the Father turned His head,
His tears announcing Christ was dead!
The 10 count would proclaim the battle’s end.
Then Satan trembled through his sweat in
unexpected horror, yet…
As God started to count by saying,
“…10…”
“Hey wait a minute, God…” “…9…” “Stop!
You’re counting wrong…”
“…8…”
His eyes are moving…
“…7…”
His fingers are twitching…
“…6…”
“Where’s all this Light coming from?”
“…5…”
“He’s alive!”
“…4…”
“Oh – nooooo!”
“…3…”
“…2…”
“Oh…Yessssss!
“…1…”
He has won!

He’s alive forevermore!
He is risen, He is Lord,

Proclaim the news in every tongue,
Through endless ages and beyond
Let it be voiced from mountains loud and strong
Captivity has been set free, salvation bought for you and me
‘Cause Satan is defeated,
And Jesus is The Champion

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Thursday, December 02nd, 2010 | Author: admin

Pharaoh did find out about Moses’  killing the Egyptian. His guards chased Moses into the desert but did not find him. In the desert, Moses met a wise man named Jethro. Moses married one of Jethro’s daughters.  During the next forty years he raised his family in the desert.

One day, Moses was taking care of Jethro’s sheep when he saw something very strange.  At the foot of a mountain he saw a bush on fire.  But the fire did not spread.  The bush did not burn up.

Then Moses heard a Voice say, ” Moses, Moses”.

“Here I am.”

“Do not come any closer, ” the voice said.  “Take off your sandals.  You are standing on holy ground.  I am the God of your father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac and the God of Jacob.”

When Moses heard this, he fell to the ground.  He was afraid to look at God. The Lord said, ” I have seen how cruelly the Egyptians treat My people.  The time has come for me to rescue them.  I will bring them back to the land I promised Abraham and Isaac so long ago.  It is a lovely land, with plenty of water for crops.  Go now Moses. I am sending you to Pharaoh to lead My people, the Israelites, out of Egypt.”

Monday, November 22nd, 2010 | Author: admin

I made a new discovery today! A new restaurant that offers buffet for only over 100 set in a quiet and lovely ambiance..it’s at Miner’s, near Mandaya hotel.

Sunday, November 21st, 2010 | Author: admin

My kids were excited. They asked me a dozen times if it’s time for swimming yet. It’s going to be their 4th time to attend swimming classes. Thanks to a friend who introduced to the swimming class her own three kids are attending.

Getting my two sons to do sports has always been my desire. I remember giving hubby a lecture about the benefits of sports, as if he doesn’t know enough though my main goal that time was to ask for support in terms of finances.
Part of my reason why I moved to Davao is to be near the beaches. I find it easier to bring the children along as the places are familiar and quite easy to go to.

What’s more interesting is that Allan’s own interest in swimming has been ignited. Just this morning he enthused about his own swimming lessons where he receives free trainings from fellow worker. It’s just great to hear him and the kids talk about something they both have interest in.

Anyway, I’m watching the kids having fun in the pool, if taking them here means additional expenses, the pool and the swimming instruction, I won’t mind at all. The fun and excitement that they cannot contain to themselves, the learning and the skill that they get are enough reasons why they should learn swimming lessons.

Thanks to Detsie who lend me some place in her bdo card, I was able to get two sets of goggles as well as the new kick board they are using now. Oshie was so excited he had to tell coach about his brand new red kick board. And while my kids are at it, my mind is wandering about the sexy bikini I found from glamorose.com. It’s one site where all the cheap lingerie, sexy and in style can be found. Think I can wear one for our next family swimming, well, I need one nice swim suit for that.  This one’s just for the feminine side of me. And why not, who wouldn’t want to have one tiny box for herself, under the Christmas tree?

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Friday, November 19th, 2010 | Author: admin

I want to buy me gusto stuff I want for my new house, er newly-renovated house. Last time my hubby came, he had the home theater installed. Now, that is not something I called totally my own.

I told him about how I wanted to have my own jacuzzi, the smallest one we could find to fit in our tiny bathroom.  I showed him the site I stumbled upon on luxurious yet affordable bathroom fixtures, bath, jacuzzi  accessories and all.  Can I call it a blessing that I introduced online shopping to to him? E-bay is now one of his cyber friend and  that he gets to comfortably shop online.

Together we went over betterbathrooms.com and see if we could find things that fitted our budget as well as our lifestyle. Wow a lot of pretty good stuff are on sale! As if the affordable prices did not thrill us enough, we drooled about the glamorous style and for a moment thought we were walking right into their showroom and found the pieces just we wanted.  I was glued to these lovely vanity set from Jacuzzi that’s got a mixture of simplicity and elegance. And yes, it’s on sale. What made me even happier is that these items could get through my doorstep in less than a month. Pretty fast!

With his home theater and my new Jacuzzi, bonding with hubby has become a bliss!

jacuzzi furniture

Friday, October 22nd, 2010 | Author: admin

I’m on my second week of the Weight Loss Challenge.  Whew! This better be worth it.  I’ve created a journal on my exercises aside from the ones listed on my own card in the gym where I enrolled for a month and a diet journal listing down all the food that I take from a bunch of peanuts to a bowl of cereals.  More importantly is I have a mainstay diet of shake- such a handy nutrients-packed meal that comes ready when I’m on the go!

Last weight: 71.3.. I shall be weighing in again..what could the figures be this time?